Women should hold out not put out for a full 3 months of dating. The theory: It's a good screening technique for women to find out if a man is simply "sport fishing" -- or looking for "a keeper."
It's good for both the guy and girl not to jump in too quickly sexually. If they sleep together too soon, the girl will think the guy is a player, and the guy will think the girl is sleazy. But 90 days can seem a bit long. It's best for the couple to speak openly, and find a time period which feels comfortable for each. And the girl should know, if the guy pushes too hard for sex, it means the guy doesn't really care about the woman.
A reminder to guys to be conscious of behaving like "gentlemen." After sex, a man must call the woman that very night, have a warm conversation, and ask the girl out during this conversation. Texting after sex is very bad post-sex etiquette. It's informal, unemotional, and shows no effort.
Guys should not pick a restaurant across the street from someone's apartment -- because it shows the girl he's hoping to chow down and get down. The guy should show a little ingenuity and effort, and find an unexplored restaurant which is not a hop, skip and jumping-bones distance from someone's home.
Thursday, April 9, 2009
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